Baby Development, Baby Guide

3 month old baby milestones – three month baby care tips

The 3rd Month of Life: Time to start reading – The development of a baby brings in the third month of life many exciting moments. Many parents notice that their baby reacts more and more intensively to conversation and game partners. The social smile is used more often depending on your mood and makes sure that the big time for a curious baby takes.

On to new perspectives

Most babies are now so strong that they can raise their heads in the supine position. In the prone position, they even manage to lift themselves up with both arms for a short time and prepare their back, neck and arm muscles for future crawling excursions.

Even fine motor skills can be found in the hand coordination above all progress. The grip is now becoming more targeted and can be with different toys train Mamas hands and harmless everyday objects, such as small plastic bowls, day after day. So-called baby trainers or play bows also provide for a beneficial variety. Do not be surprised if the joy of playing on the baby coach seems short-lived. It is quite normal for babies to spend just 10 to 15 minutes under it, which usually makes them too exhausting.

In the third month, it makes sense to look for a PEKIP course. In these courses, you will perform guided exercises with your baby and playfully enhance his motor skills. Of course, you can also perform certain exercises at home. The “bicycle riding game,” in which you move the legs of the baby like riding a bicycle, is fun, strengthens the leg muscles and often has a relaxing effect.

But do not worry, baby courses are no obligation: every baby develops just as well without ever having attended a course. Often, however, it is a place for contacting mommy.

Promote language development already

Now many babies can distinguish the faces of familiar people from others or even recognize them. The area of the brain, which is responsible for the hand-eye coordination, develops particularly rapidly in the coming weeks and months. Also, abilities of hearing, smell, and sound increase. Already talking with the baby is possible. Try it. Many babies also try to answer and imitate simple sounds.

The time when a baby will say his first word is still several months in the future. However, if you talk a lot with your baby and read it to him, you will support the development of his sense of language. Also, it makes sense to use everyday situations, such as shopping in the supermarket, to name certain things over and over again and thus promote language development outside of the usual home environment. Also, enjoy being with friends to let your baby participate in the many facets of the language.

Bilingual parents should make full use of multilingualism and already speak to the baby in both languages. However, it makes sense that one parent speaks the baby in a certain language. This makes it easier to assign the learned words to the respective language later. An exchange of experiences with other bilingual or multilingual families often helps with questions concerning multilingualism and language development.

To train your baby’s hearing, you should create other sounds in addition to normal speech. Most babies like it a lot and get distracted quickly with a new sound, such as the sound of a small bell or a funny bababab, when they are about to cry.

Connecting speaking and feeling

Also, the sense of touch of a baby refines increasingly in the third month. The previously accidental touches and tactile sensations can control it much better. Last-picture books are therefore ideal to make the time together with the baby varied. Inside are various materials that the baby can already actively feel with his hands.

Massages and pampering help your baby to feel for their body exercise and relax. In baby massage classes, you can learn which touches babies like.

Toy in the third month

With the increasing activity of a baby, the parents can also get a little more out of the toy box. Boredom is a condition that even the little ones usually do not like very much. However, choose toys that will match the age of your baby. In the third month of life, this is for the development:

  • of hearing: rattles and cardboard and cloth books to read aloud,
  • of the sense of touch: pocketbooks, stuffed animals, larger animals made of wood or plastic,
  • the hand-eye coordination: a game arc or baby-trainer called (a bar with attached toys, where a baby can play lying on his back)

For on the way it is from the third month also useful to take a baby blanket. This will serve everywhere in the next few weeks as a familiar and clean gamepad. For extra entertainment, small plush balls and rings sewn on edge can provide; however, make sure that they can be swallowed if they come off the ceiling.

When choosing stuffed animals for your baby, you should consider the following safety issues:

  • Do not buy plush toys with sewn-on plastic parts (such as button eyes), but prefer stuffed animals with embroidered faces to avoid tearing and swallowing small items.
  • Pay attention to the quality of the stuffed animal and its stuffing. In the course of the baby’s age, the plushy playmates are often heavily used. The seams should, therefore, hold well. If they do rise, the filling should not be worrying about the child.

For a hygienic cuddly feeling, the fabric mates should be able to withstand one or the other cleaning cycle in the washing machine. Soft terry towels are particularly suitable for this. Many babies quickly develop a predilection for a particular stuffed animal. If that’s the case, try a doppelganger. If the cuddly little treasure is lost, the doppelganger can probably alleviate the loss pain.

Useful for babies 3rd month

Baby blanket & play bow

Already the little ones can make themselves comfortable on a playmat and start first crawling attempts. With a blanket, the baby also has its place in the family living room. An arc over the ceiling stimulates play and grasping for the sweet figurine. As a result, the child’s motor skills are trained early.


In a baby rocker, your child is gently rocked to sleep. But even when awake small children find a seesaw as very calming and pleasant. The baby rocker can usually be moved from the lying position to the sitting position so that your child can curiously view his surroundings. While the baby is safely lifted in the seesaw, you can devote yourself to other tasks in the area.


So that the mother can enjoy a few free minutes, it makes sense to pump the milk and store it in a cool place. With a matching teat then drinking from the bottle is no longer a problem, since the teat of the mother’s breast is modeled after breastfeeding. Depending on the age, there are different sizes, so that the child can learn to drink from the bottle optimally and step by step.

The third month: All development areas at a glance

  • irregular but still fast weight gain
  • Weight gain this month about 500 to 1,000 grams
  • Average weight in the 3rd month: 5,800 g (girls), 6,400 g (boys)
  • three to four inches of growth
  • Dress size: 56 to 68
  • Shoe size: 15 to 16
  • Head circumference: 38 to 40 cm
Development of the senses
  • Faces are now visible from afar
  • pleasant for the baby: monotonous noises (like vacuuming or the hum of the car)
Motoric development
  • Movements become more controlled
  • Head and neck muscles become stronger
  • stronger kicking
  • more targeted grasping
Linguistic development
  • Education and testing of new sounds
Exciting leisure and game ideas
  • Squeak ducks, rattles, baby trainers
  • swimming together, PEKIN course, baby massage course
  • Breast milk or pre-milk
Baby Sleep
  • about 15 hours sleep a day, individual wake-sleep-rhythm (also at night)
Important dates for parents and baby
  • U4 examination at the pediatrician (3rd-4th month of life)
  • about 8-12 weeks after birth, the spiral can be used for contraception are used
  • apply for a parental benefit at the latest now, as only the last three months will be paid retroactively

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